life and friends...

Friends... are only human. They are not perfect and they will never be. They have complicated reactions. They may think they are always right. Who wants to be wrong anyways? Learn to live with it. Don’t put a grudge on it. It won’t help. You can’t fight hatred with more hatred.

These are just like rocks in the middle of your way. There are sooo many rocks out there waiting for you to overcome them. What are we suppose to do? Punch them? Kick them? I don’t think so. It will only hurt yourself by doing so. Just be there for your friends. Make sure you know what you are doing though. Just do what is right. Try to guide her there. But of course we have to learn to bend it around at times. The right thing to do may not always be the right way to handle things.

Your efforts might not exactly help coz some lessons are meant to be learnt by themselves. So just be there for her. That’s what I have to say, but don’t bring yourself to the bad. It’s definitely positive. Be there for your friends. But what is the use if you are doing the wrong thing as well? This isn’t being selfish, but you have to know what you are doing before you help a person. Sacrifice things and time for your friends. But not yourself. Everyone has a potential lighted up future, you shouldn’t throw it away just like that. People are complicated creations, so you never know what they'd do to you. Your good intentions might just go down the drain when they backstab you.

There are so many illusions around. Sadly; this world is filled with betrayal. No offence. But reality check, that’s the truth. So watch out, it might just hit you real hard some day. My mum told me before. I really don’t like acknowledging it. But blood is thicker than water. Always has been and always will be. Family and friends. Your family will always be there for you, even if they do not seem to appear that way. Like I said, life is full of illusions. But not all friends will stay with you, they come and go. I hope I don’t offend anyone here.

It’s not easy to find a good friend. It’s really fortunate to find one. But to keep her, is truly a blessing. It is not easy, but that doesn’t mean there aren’t any around. Strive for a friend, for life without friends would be like life on a deserted island.

Frankly speaking, I didn’t really like what my mum told me. But I guess we'll see that in the real world after school. Correct me if I am wrong.
Life...... I take it as a road. With many humps. Many different kinds of humps. Sure, they slow you down, but you'll get to enjoy the long smooth road afterwards. They’re just like life’s ups and downs. Without these "humps", life would be missing of one very important factor. Excitement... life won’t be interesting then. Everything happens for a reason. So people out there, CHEER UP! Study smart.

Why did God create disappointment? I don’t know. But I have a hunch that it is to give us a boost. So that we'll work harder for what we were aiming for. Aim for the skies, for if you fall, at least you reach to clouds... =)